Happy Birthmother's Day. I didn't even know there was such a thing. At first, I thought this was probably Hallmark's attempt at making more money but then I did some research and apparently it was the idea of a group of birthmothers. During my research I found some differing points of view about this celebration. One birthmother in particular was offended by having a separate day. After all, was she any less of a mother just because she wasn't parenting? She felt she made a huge sacrifice because of her love for her child and that is what mother's do. I haven't yet formulated an opinion on the subject. I was perfectly fine recognizing my son's birthmother on Mother's Day...I guess I will have to ask her about it. If she has a preference then that is what really matters.

So, what is it that Mother's want to do on Mother's Day? "Nothing" seems to be the preference of many people I know. A break...that's what mothers need! I just saw yesterday on Fox and Friends that if mothers were paid a salary, they should be earning $117,000 per year! Wouldn't that be nice??? Instead, the pay isn't great, the work is hard, but the reward is invaluable.

Anyway, my "break" will probably have to come another day. I will be parenting solo on Mother's Day since Mike is out of town. But this is also a good thing...quality time spent just with the Ryan, Grace and Nathan. I usually get the best gifts...handmade cards, lots of hugs and kisses, a little extra TLC...my children are the greatest! And, of course, I am looking forward to spending time with my mom. No matter how old you are, you always need your mom! I don't know what I would do without her.